Everyone that has been divorced knows the feeling, FAILURE. Even if you want the divorce, even if it is for the best you still feel like a failure. You might be happier then you were married. You might be better off financially then when you were married but it still remains somewhere in your brain...FAILURE, you could not make it work. No one gets married to get a divorce, you don't look at someone and say "gee I think I will get better acquainted with him where I can divorce him. You might think I really love him and if we get married and it doesn’t work we can get a divorce but no one goes into the relationship looking for a divorce. They might get married hoping the person will die where they can have the money but not to get a divorce.
So how do you survive a divorce and live on another day. Lets all share some of our stories and thoughts of how you survived. Some people will remarry and some are scared to remarry for fear of another failure. I think they should call it a failure, come on lets get a failure badge.
People will tell you to get over it, it wasn’t your fault, he was a cheater, he was a drinker but in your heart you are saying “what could I have done different to have made this work”, “Was I a fool for not seeing how much he drank before I married him?” “How could I not have seen the warning signs and stopped the problem before it got so bad?”
Someway you will always come back to the FAILURE? What could I have done different?
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